When your child throws a temper tantrum at home, it can be bad. When he or she does it in public, it can be worse. Ignoring the public tantrum is not possible, so you have to find ways to defuse the situation quickly. If your child is going through this phase in his or her life, here are some tips for handling public tantrums.  

Stay Focused on Your Child 

A public tantrum can be frustrating and embarrassing. It is sometimes easier to focus on what others are thinking about your child's behavior than the actual tantrum. This could prove to be a big mistake. The longer you are focused on others and not your child's behavior, the longer it will take to get control of him or her.  

Despite how difficult it can be, you need to tune out everyone else and focus solely on your child. It is important to remember to remain calm and try not to overreact. Your child's behavior is a desire for attention and if you overreact, you are basically feeding the tantrum.  

Distract Your Child 

Before your child's tantrum can blow out of control, try distracting him or her. Your child's attention span is relatively short and with quick action, the tantrum can be averted. It is important that you know the signs of an imminent temper tantrum for this to work. If you notice your child exhibiting any of those signs, such as his or her face turning red, go for the distraction.  

A distraction can be anything. For instance, pointing out something interesting in the area can help divert the child's attention from his or her intended breakdown. It could even be telling a joke or making a funny face. 

Praise Good Behavior 

One of the ways you can encourage your child to stop the temper tantrums is to praise him or her. Simply thanking your child for responding in a positive manner to a bad experience can help him or her stay on the right path. For instance, if your child normally has a tantrum when he or she is told no in the store, once you have left the store, thank the child for being on his or her good behavior.  

You also need to be sure you are praising your child for good behavior at daycare. In addition to this, talk to your child's teacher about your plan you are using to overcome tantrums to ensure he or she is on the same page. Consistency will be key in avoiding tantrums.  

Still feeling lost? Consider contacting your local child care center for tips on how to deal with kids and temper tantrums.